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Five ways to ready yourself for divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 25, 2024 | Divorce |

You have a lot on your plate once it becomes clear that your marriage isn’t going to survive. While key divorce legal issues like property division, child custody, alimony and child support can leave you feeling stressed, the downward pressure of it all can be completely overwhelming from an emotional and psychological standpoint. And you have to take care of yourself in order to successfully get through your marriage dissolution. That’s why it’s crucial that you know how to ready yourself for the divorce process that awaits you. But how do you do that?

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, you have to take the steps that shield you from the potential harmful effects of divorce in light of your unique set of circumstances. That said, let’s look at some tips that you might be able to implement in your case.

There’s a lot to be done to position yourself for a successful divorce. This includes doing each of the following:

  1. Figuring out what kind of divorce suits your situation: Although some divorces are highly contentious, thus necessitating full-blown litigation in court, others can be resolved more amicably. If you fall into the latter camp, then you might want to explore your options. Although you may be able to negotiate divorce settlement without much help from others, sometimes it’s beneficial to take a collaborative approach that includes assistance from professionals who can help guide you on meeting your goals. Choosing the right type of divorce can reduce conflict and set you on a path to the successful post-divorce life you want.
  2. Inventorying your assets: You should acquire your fair share of the marital estate, but you’re not going to know what that encompasses until you inventory your assets. You need to be as detailed as possible here so that you don’t miss something that winds up leaving you at a disadvantage. Having this inventory in-hand can give you peace of mind going into your divorce.
  3. Focusing on the future: It’s easy to get caught up in the reasons for your divorce. But try not to dwell on past events. Dragging them up will increase conflict and throw up obstacles to resolving your divorce legal issues. Instead, truly try to focus on what you need to build the successful short and long-term life that you want. This, too, will reduce conflict and your divorce, thereby making the process easier to navigate.
  4. Taking care of yourself: The emotional and psychological impact of divorce can be stunning. You’ve got to take care of yourself so that you’re not consumed by the process. Engage in hobbies that you love, find support from family members and friends and consider mental health treatment from a therapist. By taking these steps, you can reclaim control of your life and give yourself something to look forward to in the next chapter of your life.
  5. Educating yourself on the process: A lot of divorce-related stress is derived from uncertainty. But you can demystify the marriage dissolution process by learning as much as you can about it. So, read up on applicable laws and how the issues that are important to you will be analyzed by the judge.

Protect yourself as much as you can during your divorce

There’s a lot to think about as you navigate the divorce process. And as you’re wrapped up in it all, it can be easy to lose sight of what’s best for you and your future. That’s why we encourage you to take the time needed now to think through your divorce strategy and what you want out of your marriage dissolution. By putting in work on the front end, you’ll hopefully better position yourself to obtain the divorce outcome that you want.

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