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What goals should you have in divorce?

On Behalf of | Jun 24, 2025 | Divorce |

A lot of divorces resolve through settlement negotiations. While that can save you time, money and a bunch of conflict, you can’t blindly step into the process and expect to walk away with a resolution that protects your best interest. Instead, you need to develop an effective negotiation strategy that’s targeted at meeting your goals. But what should you be shooting for in your divorce?

Goals to focus on during your divorce

There’s so much to think about during the divorce process that it can be hard to muddle through it all. That’s why you should focus on molding your arguments to tailor the future you want for yourself. Those arguments may include doing the following:

  • Creating a post-divorce budget so that you know what financial goals you need to live the lifestyle you want and deserve.
  • Focusing on your children’s well-being and the type of custody arrangement that’ll support their best interests.
  • Understanding your marital finances so that you can argue for a property division that’s fair and that gives you enough money to build the next chapter of your life.
  • Paying attention to your own well-being so that you can get through the process as smoothly as possible while protecting your mental, emotional and psychological health.
  • Identifying the legal issues that are most important to you so that you can narrow your focus during mediation.

Craft a divorce legal strategy that helps you attain your goals

There’s certainly a lot to address when going through divorce. But you can’t get tangled up in the weeds of the process. Instead, you should carefully analyze the facts of your situation to determine what sort of legal arguments are needed to position yourself for success. Your attorney may be able to help you make the fully informed decisions that are right for you in that regard.

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